Does everyone wear a mask?
Yes, I do
And not just one at it
A new one for each person I meet
It’s because I don’t want them to know me
Until I permit them to
Until I’m sure the knowledge lies in safe hands
You may remember my status not long ago
To know who you are without any delusions or sympathy is a moment of revelation that no one survives unscathed. Some have been driven to madness by the stark reality. Most try to forget it. But as much as it gives another power, so you may gain power over yourself, if the truth doesn’t break you.
The concept of masks is best explained by sir Paulini in this book (unintentionally?)
He says that a Rider has 2 names. One is his real name and the other is the one with which others know him. The real name is hidden, even from himself. It is only after an enormous amount of deliberation can he know his own reality. Only few have the courage to undergo this deliberation. Even fewer survive it.
The knowledge of your reality has the power to destroy you. Do you really consider it wise to vest it in unworthy hands? Or in any hands for that matter? Because, in a moment, intentionally or not, they may completely destroy you.
Taking the risk of revealing yourself is sheer stupidity. The mask gives you the confidence of survival. The mask can be altered. The mask is convenient.
We ourselves must master the skill of controlling our masks. The act of thinking and the precision of execution is a step towards invulnerability. When none can guess, none can predict, none can conquer. Basically, you need to be a good Occlumens. Shut your mind and shut your mouth. For your own safety.
You may argue, what about trust? If we trust someone with our lives, surely we can trust them with our identity.
Not quite. When you yourself are unlikely to survive the encounter, how can you expect another to handle it well? It’s just too much information.
The mask, although may slip. It’s acceptable. Just an inch or so, to reveal your eyes. Eyes are the biggest giveaway. Eyes are the epitome of all that it true. Not even an accomplished liar can control their activity.
Now while you ponder over this stuff I will go design myself another mask. Now I hope my brother, I answered you well.
